I agree with you. Paris is a city where it can be challenging to create meaningful connections, even as a local. When I was a student, I was going out a lot and meeting many new and interesting people. As I matured, my circle became more professional, and I do sometimes miss the playfulness of my youth. But I still meet nice people here and there, although it takes work to make them long-term relationships. The question is, before looking for a friend, it starts with one bond, and who knows.
I know some of those places and I love their energy. I used to go to Ground Control; it is such a cool place. Thanks for the reminder—I will drop by there this summer. La Communale seems nice as well. I have heard really good things about it. It was already on my list for August, as is La Recyclerie.
I have to explore more the 19th, 18th and 10th—I rarely go there.
Funny enough, I have in my drafts a piece about friendship in this era and how we build fewer long-term bonds with each other. Your email feels like a good clue to write it when I resume in September.
Thanks for your thoughts, Keva! I went to Communale for the Olympic opening ceremony and it's a really nice vibe :) Can't wait to read your piece about friendship.
I enjoyed reading this. Methinks the fear of rejection often plays a huge role in hindering us from maximising these third places/spaces. In our heads, we're already presupposing people's reactions to us and this could be rightly informed by previous experiences. But other times, it's just humans getting in the way of themselves.
These days, third spaces are constantly being redefined and virtual spaces could as much be a third place or space as it is with physical spaces. I do think we should go out more but right now, I am existing in your comment section as a possible third space where my thoughts meet with yours. I think that's a good thing too.
I like your perspective on this, Tomi. Virtual third places are also a part of the equation but I like to know that people I meet virtually are real so I’m always looking for a more hybrid experience. Hopefully third places are also inclusive (offline and online) to help people get over a fear of rejection. Your presence in the comments section is appreciated 😌😉
Might be. I have noticed that girls are definitely more drawn to group training and having personal trainers to lead them. Which satisfies their social needs. Guys just make friends instead :D
I agree with you. Paris is a city where it can be challenging to create meaningful connections, even as a local. When I was a student, I was going out a lot and meeting many new and interesting people. As I matured, my circle became more professional, and I do sometimes miss the playfulness of my youth. But I still meet nice people here and there, although it takes work to make them long-term relationships. The question is, before looking for a friend, it starts with one bond, and who knows.
I know some of those places and I love their energy. I used to go to Ground Control; it is such a cool place. Thanks for the reminder—I will drop by there this summer. La Communale seems nice as well. I have heard really good things about it. It was already on my list for August, as is La Recyclerie.
I have to explore more the 19th, 18th and 10th—I rarely go there.
Funny enough, I have in my drafts a piece about friendship in this era and how we build fewer long-term bonds with each other. Your email feels like a good clue to write it when I resume in September.
Thanks for sharing this needed topic!
Thanks for your thoughts, Keva! I went to Communale for the Olympic opening ceremony and it's a really nice vibe :) Can't wait to read your piece about friendship.
I enjoyed reading this. Methinks the fear of rejection often plays a huge role in hindering us from maximising these third places/spaces. In our heads, we're already presupposing people's reactions to us and this could be rightly informed by previous experiences. But other times, it's just humans getting in the way of themselves.
These days, third spaces are constantly being redefined and virtual spaces could as much be a third place or space as it is with physical spaces. I do think we should go out more but right now, I am existing in your comment section as a possible third space where my thoughts meet with yours. I think that's a good thing too.
I like your perspective on this, Tomi. Virtual third places are also a part of the equation but I like to know that people I meet virtually are real so I’m always looking for a more hybrid experience. Hopefully third places are also inclusive (offline and online) to help people get over a fear of rejection. Your presence in the comments section is appreciated 😌😉
I do!
My brother said the same so now I’m wondering if it’s a guy thing? 😅
Might be. I have noticed that girls are definitely more drawn to group training and having personal trainers to lead them. Which satisfies their social needs. Guys just make friends instead :D